Fathers Rights To See Children are of tremendous interest, and my first glance at this news piece, supposedly about visitation rights, was, naturally, to see what dark reprehensible things Usher had been up to that might cause Tameka to seek to strip him of his rights to visit his two young sons resulting from his short marriage to Tameka.
I was thoroughly put off, however, within about 30 seconds as the ‘ other shoe dropped ‘ rather quickly, and it became patently clear what this attempt at sensation over Usher’s visitation rights was about one thing, and one thing only, MORE MONEY!
Why were these alleged monetary grievances left to accumulate if they were indeed so oppressive and damaging as to justify stripping the father and the children of their normal, natural, and legal rights to enjoy each other in the anticipated parent child relationship?
Tameka Raymond — who had 2 kids with Usher during their brief 2 year marriage — filed court papers in Georgia … asking a judge to strip Usher of joint physical custody of their children ASAP. According to the docs, Tameka …
This ‘ piece of work .’ obviously handcrafted by her attorney, would seek to interfere with and to strip the fathers rights over a claim for money … concocted during the holidays by a desperate wanna be celebrity’s wife yet!
Fathers Visitation Rights Must Remain Intact!
Lest any one forget the consequences of legal maneuvering to cut fathers out of the lives of their children, just take a look below at the consequences of such a well traveled judicial road! For more than the last forty years, so called ‘family law’ has devastated society in general and desperately and unnecessarily hurt the millions of fathers and children torn apart as their families were destroyed right in front of their eyes! Here are the ugly consequences.
Please share this with friends who are interested in, are going through some of these issues, or are about to go through any of these issues!
Fathers rights to see children has some great news! MOTHERS BEWARE! A dedicated father who has been fighting hard, in a tough international case, for the last four years to be allowed to be part of his daughter’s childhood, wins custody.
According to the news story below, the father just won his custody case. The mother in this precedent setting case has agreed to cooperate in the immediate return of the child who is expected to arrive home in time for Christmas!
Thanks to Dr. Garcia for having the courage to take his fight for his daughter to the limit! It is encouraging to those fathers fighting for involvement in the lives of their children. Mothers need to sit up and take notice that there are harsh consequences for illegal interference with custody orders and fathers visitation rights and be involved in the lives of their children.
ABC7Chicago.comWis. father wins international custody case ABC7Chicago.com November 22, 2011 (MILWAUKEE) — A Wisconsin father has won an international custody case that could bring his 9-year-old daughter home from Japan by Christmas. The girl’s mother …
The judiciary, in all states, needs to be encouraged to accelerate the adjustment of public policy toward steering family law cases to work out sufficient differences between the parties so a practical joint parenting and custody plan can be worked out for the benefit, of what should be acknowledged by all parties, as the most important party in the cases, the children.
In the mean time, there are far too many fathers, non-custodial fathers, who haven’t or can’t see their own children, as if non custodial fathers don’t hurt. Some times it is by vicious and unwise court ruling, sometimes it is by oppressive lies and legal tactics taken by a foolish ex wife, sometimes as in this case, it is by outright parental abduction and unlawful flight to a foreign jurisdiction, and some times the hurting non custodial father hurts too much and is too financially challenged to fight the long uphill battle often required to get done that which is the right thing.
Fathers rights to see children is changing. The fact is, children are looking for their fathers online because they are hurting too!
Someone needs to educate some apparently very heartless and myopic legal minds in Australia, if the following ABC Online news posts are accurate”.
According to ABC News, “After a long legal battle, the court ruled it would be pointless to order shared care of the girl because the mother was determined to ignore court orders and destroy the daughter’s relationship with her father.” For more details on this apparent insanity, read ABC Online’s characterization of this outrageous Australian family court ruling, by viewing the link below.
Are the brilliant minds quoted in the article below and the family court so cowardly there that they would not only accept the proposition that one of the parties was determined to ignore the court’s order, but in reality reward such a recalcitrant individual with such an extreme order in her favor and against the pitiful child and her father and the natural, God given fathers rights?
I can see it now, all a party to a family court proceeding has to do to obtain the ruling they want is make it loud and clear that they are determined to ignore any unfavorable court ruling or order!
Is family court in Sydney, or where ever the Sydney news source was reporting on, is apparently so bereft of wisdom and imagination that the best they can do is deny this fathers right’s to see his child for 13 years? Sorry folks, that is extreme and defeatest! In fact, it would appear to ultimately beg for anarchy!
Dad banned from seeing child for 13 yearsABC Online “There were allegations of violence between them; there are allegations of abuse in relation to the child; there is evidence of the father’s attitude towards the mother, which is negative. “And then …
Here are just a few consequential examples when this kind of destructive judicial logic goes unchecked for a few decades.
Fathers rights are at stake! Hey guys…Wake Up! That which at one time has been a very prejudiced and damaging policy of “justice” against non custodial fathers for decades, forming a major blight on the history of justice in the USA, is slowly righting itself!
There is news out there that is both positive and of vital interest to non custodial fathers, indeed, non- custodial parents everywhere – news that potentially involves your money and most important, the future of your relationship with your children.
Dads Can Win has been saying that it is imperative that public policy change. The ‘wheels of justice’ move incredibly slow, sometimes causing incalculable damage to individuals, families, and society at large. In the last year or two, Dads Can Win has changed with the times, and, now, we are saying that what has heretofore been men’s generally despicable fortunes in the family law arena are finally improving, little by little. Sadly, however, most men remain oblivious to the changing fortunes of rights for fathers and their implications to families and society every where.
Fathers Rights Get A Boost
Even around the globe, happily, we have also been seeing important changes of direction in the areas of public policy towards fathers visitation rights, fathers custody rights, and even proper administration of child support issues. For example, just yesterday, 17 November, 2011, even the extremely conservative Swiss government indicated through its Simonetta Sommaruga, who issued a release which stated, “…..we’re thus introducing equal rights to the issue of custody,” clearly indicating that, “this had been demanded above all by fathers.”
http://www.SwissInfo.ch Child custody to be shared between parents summarized the development by saying, “The Swiss cabinet has decided in the future, parents should have joint custody of their children where one parent will be favoured only when it involves the protection of the child. Sommaruga’s proposal was welcomed by all political parties as well as men’s and fathers’ associations.”
Fathers must quit being intimidated and quit buying into these street myths of blanket wrongly prejudiced family law court treatment. The nation should not forget the long suffered blight of injustice suffered primarily by non custodial fathers rights in general and by men and their children, specifically, but it is now time for the men to move on confidently and with vigilance.
They must righteously get involved, on a personal level themselves, in the process of resolving support, parenting, child visitation, and custody issues – both in learning the current state of the law, court positions and public policy attitudes. Not just the individual men but children and society at large are the ultimate losers when they do not. Believe it! Non custodial dads are winning child support cases, modification cases, fathers visitation rights cases, and fathers custody cases.
The full expense of an attorney isn’t always necessary because very knowledgeable and experienced fathers rights support groups are now available online for reasonable fee, judges are more knowledgeable and fair, and at least one excellent book, Dads Can Win is available for under $30 which provides encouragement, information, great resources, and shows how dads are winning and how you can too!
Thoughts Shared By USA Attorney
For example in the USA, shared custody presents new and improved possibilities for men going through divorce according to Christina G. DeBernardis, Attorney, author of Shared Physical Custody, A Growing Trend. DeBernardis states, “You can seek shared physical custody, if your spouse does not agree, provided that your situation warrants a shared physical custody arrangement.” For more information on this resource at http://www.CGDLegal.com
So as you can see, solutions which are inherently more fair and wise like shared custody, cited above by Attorney De Bernadis, are emerging in the changing world of the law. Spread the word! Please, share this information with others who need help and people who know men that need help with these often traumatic issues.
Believe it! Much has changed, and Dad’s who get walked on because they didn’t try will no doubt continue to carry their stories, which unfortunately get passed on in the street, perpetuating the now crumbling myth about how prejudiced and impossible the plight of fathers rights is today in family law court. — Authored by Beau Champaign