Non Custodial Fathers Rights, Or Absence Thereof, In Vermont,
Is Making A Mockery Out Of Vermont’s Boast…
Non Custodial Fathers Rights, or absence thereof, in Vermont, is making a mockery out of Vermont’s boast that they are the ‘most progressive state’ in the Union. Dad’s Can Win has news for Vermont. The State of Vermont may exercise a high degree of self delusion, but neither social cowardice, myopic social vision, nor legislative foot dragging will win any awards for progressivism, of any kind, when subjected to the glaring light of day and fathers rights.
Sixteen states and Washington, DC, have gone even farther by enacting laws that presume that joint custody is in the best interest of a child unless the court finds evidence of dom…
There is nothing enviable about so called progressivism whose misguided populist agenda is aimed squarely at the destruction of what is, and what has always been, the very cornerstone of civilized society, the family.
Traditional family units and the civic and military institutions which flow directly therefrom are the basis of most stable, if not all, significant societies, be they conservative, progressive, or liberal. Here are the shocking results of this so-called progressive agenda in its anti family, anti child, and anti non custodial parent form.
Fathers Rights and Broken Home Abuse by Government and
Its Documented Public Consequences
63 percent of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) — 5 times the average.
90 percent of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes — 32 times the average.
85 percent of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes — 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Control)
80 percent of rapists with anger problems come from fatherless homes –14 times the average. (Justice & Behavior, Vol 14, p. 403-26)
71 percent of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes — 9 times the average. (National Principals Association Report)
75 percent of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes — 10 times the average. (Rainbows for All God’s Children)
70 percent of youths in state-operated institutions come from fatherless homes — 9 times the average. (U.S. Dept. of Justice, Sept. 1988)
85 percent of all youths in prison come from homes where Fathers visitation rights were dysfunctional for some reason– 20 times the average. (Fulton Co. Georgia, Texas Dept. of Correction)
Populist demagoguery aside, strong family values, family based institutions, and legislative presumptions must be woven into society’s very fabric, making them impervious to the whims of society’s more immature and impressionable segments, who may have fallen prey to one demagogue or another.
In short, there is nothing progressive or democratic about the tail wagging the dog. Vermont and the other thirty some odd, so called, progressive states, still bringing up the rear, need to return to pro family and pro children policies and laws . Those who have been blinded by the sweet wine of media popularity and by the often shrill tax funded demagoguery of the last forty years or so, need but to view, for just a clear moment, the truth which comes in the form of the undeniable treacherous results of this so called progressive agenda as shown above.
Non Custodial Fathers Rights Have Been Relegated To
The ‘Back Of The Bus’!
It is time to WAKE UP VERMONT!!! Organize! Take Action…be the architect of the change you want. It is an election year!
Non custodial parent rights groups know the Holiday Season is a difficult time of year for anyone feeling overwhelmed with life’s problems and especially so for those who are feeling lonely during and around the Christmas Holiday Season. I can assure you, as someone who has been there, very little exceeds the pain of loneliness for a child, or perhaps even worse children, that has been taken away by whatever process.
The non custodial parents rights group of Irish Dads who are separated from their children are to be commended for the thoughtful expression of their pain as exemplified by the memory of those Dads who tragically could find no way out of the traumatic ugly pain of family circumstance and a misguided Family Law system that left them without hope, without normal participation in their children’s lives and left the true victims, the children, unnecessarily torn to shreds!
Ireland — “WAKE UP!”
The final destruction of the once proud core Irish tradition, loyal families, even clans is underway in Ireland at the hands of the legislative, judicial, and bar associations, much as it has been in the USA and other so-called developed countries. Families are the cornerstone of every civilized free society and have been since the dawn of time. In time, fathers must and will, once again, play a more and more meaningful role in Irish culture and society.
The kind of pain and destruction being unleashed, unwittingly perhaps, by the current direction of the Irish family law system must change…..WAKE UP IRELAND!
Dads Can Win agrees with these Irish Parents Rights groups, and we applaud these brave men and their supporters. Judges need to be better educated as to the complexity of these family law matters, the real ramifications of their decisions, the inadequacies of the process, the abuses built into decisions that leave the children and society at large out of the process.
Fathers’ rights group highlights Christmas suicide risk for separated Irish Times FATHERS’ RIGHTS campaigners yesterday threw Christmas wreaths into the River Liffey as part of a campaign to highlight what they say is the heightened risk of suicide fac …
Perhaps a quick look at the devastation that another cookie cutter approach often used by a largely unwise one sided judicial process unleashed on a neighboring society over decades, will serve as a forecast to Ireland for all but the small closed minds that are predisposed to perpetuate the current, clearly misguided, family law system which is little by little leaving an indelible scar across Ireland’s beautiful landscape.
Non Custodial Parent Rights To Ireland’s Legal Profession…WAKE UP!
A judicial path that steers toward a co-parenting solution is less costly to all parties including the children and society. If the slow plodding judiciary won’t take the lead in protecting all parties of the family unit, then society will ultimately find its own answers long after the damages have piled up to the shame of the legal profession and the massive detriment of Ireland and its families.
Joint Custody Child Support For State Profit…
Joint custody child support, most broken families need help with, not interference with the same for state profit! Whether true, or to the extent it is even close to being true, Judges, lawyers, and child support officials have allegedly been engaged in helping the state profit from broken families all across the state for perhaps many years. This is one of the most OUTRAGEOUS allegations that have been trotted out to see the light of day in a long time! Child support advocates need to get vigorously involved!
Parents rights groups across Alabama and their attorneys have been studying and documenting these allegations, and vow to take their complaints of official misconduct, numerous constitutional and civil rights violations to federal court as early as the first half of December this year, 2011. Good for the parent’s rights and fathers rights groups in Alabama!
Here is roughly how it comes down. Judges hand out orders right and left, maximizing non custodial child support, and minimizing (declining to order or eliminating visitation and co-parenting proposals in order to maximize the child support collectible under court order. By so doing they then get more incentive money for Alabama from the federal social security programs [see 42 U.S.C. section 658a]
Documented: Most States Make A Profit From Broken Families
Don’t even let me hear anyone say, “… thank God I don’t live in Alabama!” According to a report cited in the examiner.com, “ As early as 1998, the U.S. House Ways and Means Committee admitted, ‘Most States make a profit on their child support program.’
The committee also noted, ‘States are free to spend this profit in any manner the State sees fits.’ Parents rights advocates maintain that the resulting State policies and procedures represent a grave conflict of interest which ultimately hurts Alabama’s children. [Committee Report, page 596] ”
Actually, the very notion that the state PROFITS from the conflicts, pain, and disability of its citizens when, indeed, it insists on managing the conflicts, pain, and disabilities, even at the force of a gun, is, or ought to be, ABHORRENT to anyone with a modicum of self respect who contemplates for a moment, the legitimate concept of decency in government.
Better check again! It looks like good citizens monitoring fathers rights and joint custody child support in their respective state should be getting involved to investigate abuse involving this prevalent type of (whether nor not you are involved in the Family Law Court System), with a magnifying glass and a bull dog attitude, I might add. Here are the details you need to know about and understand.
Taxpayers not involved in joint custody child support, visitation or related Family Law System issues are taking it in the shorts because they are all responsible for money losses. The feds lost 2.7 billion on this program in 2002 alone! Simply educating the citizens across the state and holding these so called leaders accountable will go a long way toward remedying or preventing these kinds of excesses against the citizenry. Forcing the state to disgorge its profits in favor of the families who trusted them would be much better.
Alabama parents rights groups allege the state profits from broken families Examiner.com They point out that the less visitation provided for the ‘non-custodial parent,’ the larger the child support obligation which the State can enforce against the pare …
You may be a victim…your children may be victims and your state may be involved in perpetrating this outrageous ugly abuse of its citizens while causing incalculable pain and suffering every day in the lives of these victims!
It is unconscionable for state and federal governments to knowingly commit these kinds of misconduct abuses against their citizens especially when it is unnecessary. It recently became public knowledge through the press that Idaho has allegedly been allowing their various police agencies to interfere with lawful court visitation orders — perhaps for the same reason? Hopefully someone in Idaho is studying the Alabama report set forth above that will most certainly be of interest to citizens there dealing with joint custody and visitation.
Do You Want More Official Misconduct?
Warning: Do not worship your government, whatever level, to such an extent that you no longer have the capacity to question authority and to call them to task as necessary over any particular issue. If and when the citizenry as a collective, does worship their government, all will become totalitarian slaves!
Fathers Rights To See Children are reportedly, according to IdahoPress.com, being violated in an extra judicial manner by mothers who refuse to cooperate and by authorities who routinely refuse to enforce the court’s order for visitation rights, with apparent impunity. And when the shoe is on the other foot, the men are apparently often arrested immediately even though the court order is theirs to enforce! Here is what the Idaho Press Tribune in Nampa, Idaho, reports.
Idaho fails to honor rights of fathers Idaho Press-Tribune. The state of Idaho still has not improved when it comes to the rights of fathers. The courts will give fathers court documents for him to get his children for visitation, and when it comes time …
All the while, reportedly, as ‘ Idaho’s (supposed) finest ‘ refuse to do their jobs of enforcing lawful court orders for visitation, It would appear that too many times the judicial branch conveniently turns a blind eye, more or less, in a sort of ‘ catch 22 ‘ which eventually discourages the fathers to the extent that many quit making the efforts they had been making because of their history of futility — then, sadly, all of society loses.
An organized and proper citizen based statewide investigation should be undertaken to see to what extent this is really happening . When factual results are in hand supporting these and other claims that fathers rights are being systematically and extra-judicially denied, a coordinated effort needs to be made to educate citizens, motivate citizens to use the ballot box, and through the proper channels to force an investigation at the highest levels with citizen oversight to shut down this kind of corruption, to the extent it is going on.
Fathers Rights Denied: Punishment For Violators Seem A Little Harsh?
The citizens of Idaho who want to have control of their state, rather than give it up to those who manipulate, lie, and force their will on the citizens, must become active on this and other issues with the same root problem. That is to say, all authorities who violate their oaths of office, the will of the people, and the law of the land must be subject to appropriate punishment for their misuse of the public trust just like others in the political and bureaucratic classes have been.
Seem a little harsh? Political leaders, bureaucrats, even police are subject to law and punishment including prison for certain ‘ pet ‘ crimes. What about those who “legally” (non-criminally) violate the public trust and the highest law of the land with disastrous results to society from their policies, procedures, and the violation of their oaths of office on a near daily basis? What about those who lie to and mislead the public to their detriment, directly or indirectly through complicity?
Why are law abiding responsible men being singled out for this kind of unlawful oppressive treatment in Idaho? Is this simply an innocent effort to socially engineer the further destruction of what may be feared as potentially against the establishment’s interests?
Has the Idaho political establishment simply run-a-muck and regularly acting against the will of the people whenever it wants? Or is this twisted phenomena something that is being orchestrated from the federal level to intimidate like the issuance of an estimated 16 million arrest warrants against young non custodial fathers for alleged child support arrearages was during a 1 or 2 year period a few years ago?
In any event, for those private citizens and public officials, alike, who may need a reminder, here is a mosaic of the dire consequences of interfering with fathers visitation rights for any reason but the most carefully scrutinized and confirmed factual circumstances can be.
Fathers Rights To See Children Denied…Wake Up Idaho!
As you can see, their misdeeds will punish you and your society if you don’t punish them for their misdeeds. Wake up Idaho! Verify this blight on Idaho to the extent that it exists, become righteously indignant and do something about it within the proper channels!