Fathers Rights … Plays Devil’s Advocate!
Let’s play ‘ Devil’s Advocate ‘ for a moment. This is an important exercise in any situation in life whether or not a family law matter. First, understand that family law matters, from a technical standpoint at least, are beginning to move back toward a balance. Whereas they have been out of balance for many decades. Second, from a practical perspective, it remains difficult … very difficult to sustain a successful fight to remain involved with your children if the children’s mother is dead set on getting you out of their collective lives.
For decades, the facts in millions of divorce cases demonstrate clearly how heavily the establishment society has oppressed unmarried fathers rights whether joint custody child support or visitation. Looking for a solution, as the politicians began in earnest to dismantle, or attempt to dismantle, what they frequently referred to as the ‘ welfare state ‘ which was blamed for bankrupting the treasury, they decided to get more involved in the collection of child support. The various governments at all levels began to make it very rough on their new scapegoat — non custodial fathers. This seemed to peak after the various ‘ Deadbeat Dads ‘ PR campaigns … remember the milk cartons and pizza boxes and the highly televised issuance of arrest warrants, arrest round ups pushed nationwide to the very ugly detriment of fathers struggling with a system that was inherently and grossly unfair?
While remnants of this old enforcement mentality remain, there seems to be a rush to ‘ remedy ‘ some of the legal and societal excesses. Why? Albeit a good thing, but why? Do the policy makers across the land suddenly have a conscience? Does the continued trillion dollar annual support for non-marriage indicate a new found desire to reinstate the marriage and the family as inviolable corner stones of society because social engineering lawyers, judges, and politicians realize what a mess they have made? See www.humanevents.com/article.php?id=37591 and unein.com/radio/Phyllis-Schlafly-p20553 Or, are they getting too much money and power resulting from their mistakes?
The Devil’s Advocate might well ask, ‘ What’s in it for Dad’s who try to do the right thing? Undying love and respect of their children? Some renewed focus nationally and locally on what was once deemed the basis for civilized society, namely marriage and family — something most Dads still believe in, if they think about it? Or, are fathers looking at merely another collection tactic besides the proverbial ‘ stick’?
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